The greatest gift that you could ever give to another is your own happiness, for when you are in a state of joy, happiness, or appreciation, you are fully connected to the stream of pure, positive source energy that is truly who you are. And when you are in that state of connection, anything or anyone that you are holding as your object of attention benefits from your attention.
No one else needs you to be or do things for them in order for them to be fulfilled for each and every being have the same access to the stream of well-being that you do. Often people who do not understand that they have access to the stream suffer in their inability to hold themselves in a place of feeling good and ask you to behave in a way that they believe will make them feel better. But not only do they hold you in a place of discomfort as they try to make you responsible for their joy, they hold themselves in a place of bondage as well. For they cannot control the way any other behaves, and if that control is necessary for their happiness, then they truly are in trouble.
With this said it’s easy to see that your happiness doesn’t depend at all on what others do or say but only on your own vibrational balance. The same way the happiness of others does not depend on you but only on their own vibrational balance. The way anyone feels, in any moment, is only about their own mix of energies. The way you feel is simply, clearly, and always the indicator of the vibrational balance between your desires and your vibrational offering. And this is one which from your vantage point, you yourself have launched.
There is nothing in all the universe more important for anyone to understand than how the vibration they are offering is matching the vibrations of their desires. The way you feel is your indicator of whether you are allowing your connection to source or not. Every good feeling, every positive creation, all your abundance, clarity, health, vitality and well-being – in fact, all the things that you consider to be good, – are dependent upon the way you are feeling right now and on the relationship that that feeling – or vibration, has to the vibration of who you really are and what you really desire.
“The good life, as I concieve it, is a happy life. I do not mean that if you are good you will be happy; I mean that if you are happy you will be good.” – Bertrand Russell